We live on the 5th floor of a 5 storey building..

..and there is no lift.

Each floor is separated by 18 steps, 9 in one direction and 9 in the other.

The steps are made of cement.

The railing is made of steel.

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I messaged Olga today asking to buzz me when she & Dunia return from their walk if she would like that I assist with bringing Dunia upstairs.

She buzzed.

I went downstairs.

I met Olga at near to the third storey.

Dunia was back on the second.

Why?

Because "Dunia wants to climb the steps by herself".

No problem with that scenario.

(But what about the backup factor - in the event of a slip or even given the size of the gaps within the railing itself?)

I asked Olga if it was agreeable to her that we always ensure that one of us is behind Dunia when she is climbing the steps.

..oops..hot button..

Olga went ballistic at me.

Screaming and ranting and raving that she ought to never have called me.. and vowing to never call in future.

As to the point regarding safety and the best interest of the child: not addressed, and clearly not appreciated that was even raised.

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I too am still trying to work it out.